I am privileged to have known Dean since our younger years as family friends, but have become closer with Dean over the last couple of years.
TG1! Well, that accurately sums Dean up in a nutshell. He is The Great One!
I had the honour of accompanying Dean to a dinner function for the Police Service last year. Dean had spoken during the previous week for the Officers who had come from various parts of the world to participate in a development course. I observed that people were ‘taken’ by Dean, still wanting to speak to him to find out more about his incredible journey even after the majority of these people had heard his speech during the week. I can say without a doubt that all of those present at the dinner and for Dean’s speech took something very special away with them to share with others about Deans life and his inspiring message he relentlessly sets about getting across.
Dean’s life is undoubtedly like no other. It is tough, unique, painful, physically and mentally challenging and unpredictable. When most people rise an hour or two before they leave for work Dean is up 4 to 5 hours before he has to leave. This is just one of t he many ways Dean has to lead his life in order to survive each day whether he wants it to be like that or not. So maybe this is the reason why, that in every other aspect of his life be that work, personal – with family or friends or anything for his own satisfaction, he excels to the highest level and confidently goes about to achieve the very best outcome in every situation.
In saying that, Dean’s disease, Epidermolysis Bullosa has enabled him to become the strong willed, caring intelligent and humorous friend that he is today. Dean has had to condition his mind to bare the unthinkable level of pain and then rise above it, pretend it’s not here and we are not talking the pain of slamming a finger in a door here. It is worse! How one person can endure so much pain yet sustain such a positive attitude and live life to the fullest is a miracle in itself. He displays great willpower which everyone should aspire.
When I look at Dean or listen to or talk to Dean I am always learning. He has taught me so much. Not only learning about Dean but learning also how to better myself by using different concepts of positive thinking which Dean has endeavoured to show me.
Dean has the ability to show people a light if they feel theirs is fading.
He has the power to inspire people, reach out and touch their hearts like no one else.
If there’s one thing I have learnt from Dean it is that the human spirit is what truly matters, not material possessions, looks, or latest fashions or money. If you have love and a good heart that’s all you need to survive and that’s what will take you places. As Dean has made perfectly clear, the essence of our lives is what we allow our spirit to do or not do.
Dean is an asset to human existence and although it sounds cliché, if there were more people like Dean the world would be a more pleasant place. Due to his sheer determination, Dean never gives up and he never will!!!! He has a sense of humour that will keep you smiling for hours. I see Dean as AMAZING!
That is the word I use a lot to Dean because he really does amaze me so often, in so many ways.
Elizabeth Cross
Friend.
(2006)